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“I hate politics!”
I was hired to groom Danielle
for a promotion. Less than a
week after our first coaching
session, the head of her
division, who had been a fixture
for a dozen years, announced he
was leaving for another
opportunity. Overnight, every
senior leader in the division,
including Danielle, was thrown
into a major game of musical
chairs. Some people would zoom
upward while others would stay
where they were.
Danielle felt this was the
perfect opportunity for her to
snag her promotion. I agreed it
well might be. I began to ask
Danielle about the details of
her relationships with each of
the most senior players in the
division. After a bit,
Danielle’s shoulders slumped and
she muttered, “Ugh! I hate
politics.”
Whenever I hear that comment
(and I am surprised by how often
I hear it!), I reply with a
suggestion. “How would it be if
you substituted the word
‘relationships’ for ‘politics’?
Would you still hate it?”
Usually people answer no.
The truth is, politics exist.
But just as the word “power” is
neither positive nor negative,
the word “politics” by itself
doesn’t tell you what sort of
politics exist in your
organization nor how you relate
to it.
Political ≠ wicked and
manipulative
Most often people who say they
hate politics believe politics
are nefarious, illegitimate
means of getting ahead. While
that certainly can be true, it’s
rare that I see an organization
play by those rules. What I do
see is that every company, and
every group within a company,
has its own rules about how
politics are played.
Since the game of politics is
being played—like it or
not!—people can choose to play
the game or they can bench
themselves on the sidelines. I
challenge clients to get in the
game or get left behind.
It’s naïve to think political
savvy doesn’t factor into
people’s success. If two
candidates for a role are
equally qualified but one is
more savvy than the other, most
often the savvier candidate will
get the nod. I think that’s
appropriate. To me this feels as
inevitable as the fact that the
candidate who can display The
Look & Sound of Leadership™ will
have an advantage over the one
who can’t.
So if “politics” doesn’t
automatically mean manipulation
and back stabbing, what does it
mean? To me, being political
simply means knowing the rules
for how people within a specific
group get things done. It’s not
unlike the dynamics within
particular families. One family
may have a strict but unspoken
rule that you don’t do anything
to upset Mom or hurt her
feelings. Meanwhile, the family
next door may live by an
“anything goes” rule in terms of
how you treat each other but you
never, ever air your dirty
laundry to outsiders.
Of course it takes time to
figure out what hurts Mom’s
feelings or who are outsiders
and who aren’t. But learning the
rules and sticking to them is
how each family member earns
privileges. The child who never
learns the rules, or who
consciously rejects them, will
ultimately have trouble being an
accepted member of the family.
Over time that child might
succeed in ducking the family
politics, but she will most
likely also miss out on much of
the family’s nurturing.
Political savvy answers tough
questions
Politics in the world of work
isn’t so different. When you
know the rules within your
organization, it’s easier to
answer tough questions like,
“When is it okay to stand firm
and defend myself?” “When is it
okay to talk about someone
else’s performance?” “What
support can I expect for a
particularly challenging idea?”
“What will turn someone from an
ally into an enemy?”
If you’re going to achieve
advancement and influence in
your current position, you need
to be able to discern the
answers to these sorts of
questions, which means you have
to have some political savvy.
Kathleen Kelly Reardon spent her
career studying politics in
organizations and then wrote the
definitive book on it:
The
Secret Handshake. She describes
politically savvy people as
agile in the use of power and
the ability to influence others.
Something to aspire to, I think.
(By the way, if you have the
chance to see her in person, run
to be first in line. She lives
overseas now and doesn’t often
make public appearances, but her
keen insights, practical advice
and ruthless wit make her a
special treat to hear. Keep your
eye out for her.)
How political are you?
In
The Secret Handshake, Kathleen puts forth two premises, which she then interweaves. Her first premise is that organizations vary in the degree to which they use politics to accomplish goals. She describes four different political climates in organizations: |
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Minimally politicized, where the atmosphere is amicable and team oriented
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Moderately politicized, where rules are sanctioned and conflict is not pervasive
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Highly politicized, where rules are invoked when convenient and conflict is pervasive |
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Pathologically politicized, where rules are circumvented and conflict is long lasting and pervasive. (“And,” she writes about this last kind, “my condolences if you’ve ever worked in this political climate.”)
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Her
second premise is that
each of us has an innate
preference for how we
like to play politics.
She identifies four
political styles for
individuals: |
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The Purist, who believes in getting ahead through hard work
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The Team Player, who believes you get ahead by participating in politics that further the goals of the group |
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The
Street Fighter, who
believes that rough
tactics lead to
advancement |
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The
Maneuverer, who plays
political games in a
skillful but unobtrusive
manner, preferring to
have deniability |
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Reardon goes out of her way to make clear that Street Fighters and Maneuverers are not inherently wicked or out to advance their own careers over the bodies of others. But, she says, people in any of the styles may find it difficult to tolerate others who have significantly different styles.
Often, when people say they hate politics, what they really mean is that they're experiencing a mismatch between their styles and the styles of others. Either the individuals they're working with have radically different styles from their own, or the organization itself favors those who have a different style. In either case, the result feels oppressive and unpleasant.
Reardon lays out how people who are politically inhibited are unlikely to match cultures that are highly political. And vice versa. She creates the following table.

Reardon bluntly states, “You can’t achieve the secret handshake (advancement and influence) in an organization that is completely antagonistic to your style.” In her wry fashion, she goes on to observe, “Investing your effort in an organization for which you’re unsuited is not a pleasant or productive way to spend a chunk of your life.”
When Danielle told me she hated politics, I wanted to know which political style felt most natural to her and whether that style was a good match with the way politics was played in her division. We determined that she actually was quite well matched with her division. Once we knew that, we began identifying actions that would strengthen her relationships during the ensuing game of musical chairs, because, after all, politics is all about relationships.
As you think about yourself as a political player, first and foremost, consider how well you manage relationships. Do you manage up as effectively as you manage down? How are your relationships with your peers? Do you know what the “word on the street” is about you? If not, do you have trusted sources who will give you good feedback? Tend your relationships well and you’ll grow your political savvy.
If, having read this Tip, you don’t have a sense of which style you are, you might read
The Secret Handshake and pay particular attention to the detailed descriptors of each style. (I've reduced her descriptors to bullet points but Kathleen's eight descriptions are specific and nuanced.) There’s also a Leadership Style Inventory in the book that may help raise your awareness about your preferences. Then, study Kathleen’s recommendations for becoming politically savvy. If you can become comfortable with even half the skills she discusses, you’ll be well on your way to achieving The Look & Sound of Leadership™.
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